The whole thing's nothing but an envy-fuelled Narc Tactical-Maneuver aka: A SMOKESCREEN to try to get you to lose confidence in your own capabilities cuz the narc knows you can & will OUTSHINE him.
Narcs TRY TO invalidate their targets’ sense of self-worth.
The subject that the Narc is challenging/doubting the credibility of is besides the point.
Narcs do this SOLELY to make their target question his own mental capacity; they're TRYING to cast a shadow of self doubt so you don't realize how powerful you are (because narcs are pathologically-envious & they recognize your capabilities)...so they try to imply you're incompetent & that OTHERS need to be consulted in order to validate anything you say.
This is nothing but a narc TACTIC to try & psyche you ( their opponent) out.
They'll do this mind-fuck game by consulting & agreeing with a complete stranger before they’d admit that they know you're right.
This tactic CRAZY-MAKING (& that's intentional ) It's GASLIGHTING.
In essence, (to you)the narc tries to represent ‘OTHERS’...aka: Public Perception ...when this behavior is just the self-projected inadequacy of The NARC that he's TRYING to convince to believe.
(It's a LIE.)
You can prove they're doing it just for the sake of being contradictory by doing this test.
Say "A". They'll say "No. It's B".
Then, wait a few days.
(Now) Say "B". They'll say , "No. It's A"
That narc is NOT gonna want you to KNOW that you're correct & great cuz then, if you do...you're gonna go out there, into Society & receive praise & accolades for your greatness & you will then feel & recognize your true worth.
(Aka: that worth that the narc SEES but is envious about)
Narc wants not only to DENY but do & say discouraging things to make you not recognize & (better yet) doubt & DENY your OWN true potential & capabilities (because the narc SEES YOUR GREATNESS & he's pathologically ENVIOUS of you!)
Narc KNOWS you're great & fears (if he does not intervene & try to make you feel BAD about yourself) , that soon you TOO will realize your own value then, all narc-hell will break loose cuz narc will lose power over his target & lose narcissistic supply & therefore, (in narc's mind) cease to exist (as his 1 goal is to get supply by feeding off pain he inflicts; pain you won't feel if narc's opinion about you loses credence to you).
That's their ultimate goal...not just to IMPLY some sleight but: to try & get YOU to BELIEVE it so that YOU,in essence, take over the task...even if you leave the narc...to continue to abuse your SELF by not implementing your TRUE level of power & succeeding in life & OUTSHINING the TRULY incompetent one: THE NARC.
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