Keep THIS In Mind Next Time Narcissist Sends You A "Thoughtful" Birthday Card:
IGNORE (but save) the card (as evidence) & consider calling the POLICE & filing a restraining-order against the Narc- - Have them arrested & charged with harassment & STALKING.
The malignant narcissist is just exploiting your sentimental nature as a means to TRY to SUCK you back into their LAIR so they can resume ABUSING YOU. (Don't. Fall. For. It.)
Do NOT respond to this trickery in ANY way, shape or form.
IGNORE the card. Even reminding narc about your No-Contact rules would be perceived as a "response", same if you ripped the unopened card up & returned to sender.
